Archive - The Boundary Code

The 7 Biggest Myths About Setting Boundaries and How They Might Be Hurting Your Chances at Love

Let’s be honest: most people don’t grow up learning how to set boundaries.

Jun 18 •

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They Call It ‘Needing Space.’ But It’s Really Emotional Abandonment

The avoidant silence treatment that echoes louder than words

Jun 11 •

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The Family Roles You Didn’t Know Were Keeping You and Your Sibling Apart

Growing up with a narcissistic parent can distort nearly every relationship in your life, including the one with your siblings.

Jun 4 •

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May 2025

They Don’t Deserve All of You: Signs You’re Too Emotionally Available

We’ve all had moments where we look around and realize: Wait a second… when did my time, energy, or emotional bandwidth become a free-for-all buffet for…

May 29 •

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April 2025

If You Don’t Want to Be Ignored, Here’s the Strategy to Be Heard by the One Person You Care About the Most

There’s nothing like the sinking feeling you get when you realize they're not listening.

Apr 30 •

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The Voice in Your Head That’s Tired of Being Silent

But Too Afraid To Speak Up

Apr 26 •

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What Does It Really Mean to Have Boundaries? It's Not What You Think

And Why Most People Are Afraid to Set Them

Apr 23 •

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What Covert Narcissists Really Mean When They Say These 7 Phrases And How to Set a Boundary That Stops It Cold

The Language of Manipulation That Flies Under the Radar

Apr 19 •

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When Love Feels Familiar in All the Wrong Ways: 10 Signs You’re Repeating Childhood Pain in Your Relationship

And How to Break the Cycle with Boundaries That Heal

Apr 16 •

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7 Signs Your Gut Instincts Are Right—and Your Partner Is Manipulative

If You’re Always the Problem, It’s Not You—It’s Control Disguised as Love

Apr 9 •

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Betrayal Broke Me, But Trusting Again Set Me Free

How to Heal, Rebuild Self-Trust, and Open Your Heart Without Fear

Apr 5 •

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Outgrowing Your Partner? Here's How to Inspire Growth Without Breaking the Bond

Growing Together: Transform Your Relationship Without Pressure

Apr 2 •

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