The Boundary Code

The Boundary Code

How Boundaries and Attachment Styles Shape Every Relationship You Have

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The Boundary Code
Dec 09, 2025
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Most people think boundaries are about saying “no.”

They’re not.

Boundaries are about how you protect your emotional bandwidth, communicate your needs, and create the conditions for healthy connection. And nothing influences how you set (or avoid) boundaries more than your attachment style.

Your attachment style is essentially the internal blueprint you ca…

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